Saturday, June 27, 2009

Reflection of feelings

Today, my hubby and I went to the ang mo kio for breakfast. When we were in the macdonald, I saw 2 little kids were playing catching. The children were running around and fighting against each other. Suddenly, the medium-sized boy fell and the plump boy laugh at him. They should be aged 6-8 yrs old. The boy who fell was very angry and sad. He went back to his seat and gave an angry look on the face. After a while , a tear rolled and he wiped it away so as to hope that nobody saw him cried. There is a little sister guarding the table. She and the mediumed-sized boy do their best to protect their territory against the plump boy.

They tried to protect each other from being bullied, that is what I observed. When their daddy brought the food to the table, they tried to protect the food by not letting the plump boy touched it while their daddy went away. This is very hilarious.

Sometimes we adults also have the same reaction as the children. We tend to hide our emotional feelings from others. We do our best not to be angry or we show it upfront but in the actual fact, we are hurt by the other party. But feeling of anger will usually reveal itself first to show that we are not happy. But in actual fact, we are sad, disappointed or in fear most of the times instead of we are really angry of the other person.

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